I don't buy that we're supposed to be smily and happy and unannoyed all the time. Sometimes people just get under your skin and you have to talk about it or them and sometimes, that's what we would like to call, "A good time."
Here is my feel good moment for the past while - my in laws live in our same complex and we hang out with them every day. Ok, maybe not everyday, maybe just 6 days out of the week, sorry I didn't mean to exaggerate by saying, "Every day." Doesn't that sound like fun? They're fun people and I really love hanging out with them, but I can't handle 6 out of the 7 days of the week. Can anyone? If you can, give me some tips.
Sis in Law hates it here and I feel like it's my responsibility to help her enjoy herself. NEWS FLASH - I'm not a cruise director, and it is NOT my responsibility to make sure these are the best two years of her life. But why do I still feel like it is? I feel like I have to hold her hand and invite her to go do everything with me and my friends. The first time I did that, she complained and said my friends were "Yes Girls," or girls that just agree with everything. If she had actually talked to them, she would have realized that that's not the case at all, that group of friends is very opinionated, just opinionated about different things and different interests than Sis in Law. I can't make any new friends either because heaven forbid I make a new friend and don't make sure they're Sis in Law's friend too, I'd be a big selfish jerk if I did that.
Ugh. It's exhausting and I can't wait til they move a mere 10 miles away.
That's all for now. Signing out with my signature HORCHATA SHAKE (shimmy shimmy shimmy) -
Tres Leches.